Imagine finding out 10 years after the fact that you were living with your abuser.  Imagine that abuser was also your best friend, the one you confided in and trusted during some of most difficult years of  your life. Imagine thinking back on all the days, nights, holidays, spent crying in this person’s arms, only to find out they were the one causing you all your pain.

This is who Jessica Blahova is— read my story below, broken into chapters from the first time I met Jessica in 2010 to her confession in 2025