Chapter 9- My Message to Jessica

Continuing the story from “Chapter 8- The Confession”

Jessica at my cancer fundraiser tournament

I began telling everyone she knew, all the people I thought were the most important to her and who she was close to the years we knew each other. I told them a version of this story, albeit with less details. But I told them everything she did.

As I was going through the list of her closest friends and family, I was told about other girls in high school Jessica had had a falling out with in a big way. After some effort I was able to track down both these women and hear their stories. Out of respect for each of them, I will share them at a super high level. 

As young as 14 Jessica has been catfishing women, using the same Matt’s profile. She has been using his photos since they were both young kids. She has been using similar tactics to manipulate, gaslight and torment girls to satisfy her sexual needs and sociopathic goals. She also found ways to sexually abuse these women under the guise of it being Matt.

She used these other women’s stories in her catfishing of me describing them as “Matt’s ex” . I almost believe in her own twisted view this is how she saw them.

Jessica has caused lasting mental harm to many people, and it was this knowledge that started me down my path. This knowledge that she is a sociopath and likely still actively catfishes women. I know this story is raw, detailed, and public, because I know it’s going to hurt her a lot more than it’s going to hurt me.

So to you Jessica, because I hope you have read this whole website back to front, and seen your photos and your name on every single page. You do not deserve to live your life consequence free. You should not be living in a society where people do not know what you are capable of, especially in a position of authority teaching children in China. You deserve to have this story follow you for the rest of your life. In every country, with every relationship, and with every job you seek.

I will share this story as far and wide as I can. Your life will forever be haunted by what you did, but me and the other girls? We will go on, stronger, more resilient, and build happy futures free of your parasitic presence.

I guess I do have to thank you though, for forever changing the path of my life. I would not have the life I do today if you didn’t spend so long breaking me down, giving me the opportunity to rebuild into the person I am today. A person I am proud of, a person who has accomplished so many things and will continue to thrive and succeed, because I know no matter what comes at me in this life I can handle it, because nothing will be as horrible as you.